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Warning Signs for Substance Use/Abuse:

  • Dramatic change in attitude or personality
  • Hangs out with a new group of friends / Rejects previous friends
  • Moodiness and irritability
  • No longer cares about appearance / Poor hygiene
  • Uncharacteristic hostility towards family members
  • Dropping grades / Skipping classes / Truancy
  • Unusual emotional outbursts
  • Unusually secretive or suspicious / Paranoid
  • Dramatic changes in sleeping and/or eating habits
  • Sneaky and manipulative / Lies and steals / Dishonest
  • Frequently isolates in room / Withdrawn
  • Lack of motivation / Excessive laziness
  • Possession of unusual or unexplained paraphernalia
  • Red and/or glassy eyes / Frequent use of eye drops
  • Dramatic change in style of dress
  • Runs away / Stays out past curfew / Makes excuses for not coming home
  • Has an overall "I don’t care" attitude / Disregard for consequences
  • Slurred or forced speech
  • Loss of interest in previously enjoyed activities
  • Valuables around the house are missing
  • Unusual odor on clothes or in his/her bedroom / Alcohol on breath


    Warning Signs for Violent Behavior:

  • Past history of violent and/or aggressive behavior
  • Uncontrolled anger / Low frustration tolerance
  • Significant vandalism or destruction of property
  • Regularly threatens or intimidates others / Bullies others
  • Family history of violence / Witness to abuse / Victim of abuse or violence
  • Preoccupation with violence
  • Possession of weapons / Access to weapons
  • Gang affiliation
  • Substance use/abuse
  • Expression of violence in writings, artwork, conversations, internet chats, etc.
  • Impulsivity
  • Feelings of being rejected, picked-on, or being treated unfairly
  • Cruelty to animals
  • Fire-setting
  • Disregard for the rights or feelings of others
  • Delinquent behaviors / Serious discipline problems


    Warning Signs for Depression:

  • Risky behavior
  • Expresses a negative or pessimistic view towards life
  • Frequent crying
  • Speech and movements are slower than usual
  • Drastic change in sleeping habits
  • Drastic change in eating habits
  • Lack or loss of interest in activities that are typically enjoyed
  • Negative attitude
  • Isolation from family and friends
  • Low energy, lack of motivation
  • Decrease in school performance
  • Irritability
  • Self-mutilation, self-injury
  • Preoccupied with death
  • Suicidal comments
  • Poor eye contact
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